News, Reviews & Commentary on Lesbian and Bisexual women in Entertainment and the Media

carolinagrrrl

by carolinagrrrl

Women win designated honors at the BET Awards

The 2008 Black Entertainment Television Awards were last night and, as expected, it was quite a spectacle. In what BET promised to be the “hottest ticket on television,” musicians, actors, athletes and others gathered to celebrate the achievements of the most accomplished black celebrities of the past year.

They arrived in droves, and they arrived in style. (Well, all except for Lil Mama, but I won’t even get into that.) Behold, some of the most fashionable ladies to attend the awards:

Gabrielle Union, Keri Hilson, Rihanna

Once inside, the festivities began, though not quite as smoothly as some would have liked. If you happened to tune in late (or not at all) don’t worry about missing Usher’s opening performance; it appears as though he slipped and fell during his dance sequence. Oh well, karma’s a bi-yatch, isn’t she?

Other than the homophobe du jour, there were performers who actually deserved some recognition. Alicia Keys brought the women of SWV, En Vogue, and TLC on stage with her, and they managed to completely bring down the house with TLC’s hit “Waterfalls,” and I was simultaneously reminded of why I miss '90s music so much. (Seriously, you want to watch that video. It was totally badass.)

T-Pain led all nominees with five, but females were actually fairly well represented; several were nominated for at least two awards and all gender-neutral categories contained at least one female nominee. That is more than can be said for the Grammy Awards, the CMT Awards, or the ACM Awards. But, out of the eight categories shared by men and women, only one woman prevailed: Erykah Badu (with Mr. Roboto) for Best Video Director.

A full list of nominees and winners can be found here, but I’ll (happily) round out the list of victorious women for you.

Female R&B artist: Alicia Keys

Female hip-hop artist: Missy Elliott

Actress: Halle Berry

Female athlete: Candace Parker

So what do you think? Were these, indeed, the best women that BET could have chosen from the past year? Personally, I think the show was remiss in not showcasing Jordin Sparks more. Why was she not nominated for Female R&B artist or Best New Artist? Is she not R&B “enough?” Perhaps, but that still didn’t make me miss her wish she had performed any less.

stuntdouble's picture

Candace Parker

Candace Parker dunked for the second consecutive game last night. She had 22 points, pulled down 11 boards, and blocked three shots. For long stretches she's the best player in the country right now. I can't wait to see her in the Olympics!
carolinagrrrl's picture

Ditto!

Candace is absolutely unreal. Team USA is simply going to embarrass the rest of the world in women's basketball. I cannot wait!
sydneyB's picture

That Video...

Was AMAZING! What a great trip down memory lane with 4 strong, empowered black artisits/groups. I loved it--if you added in Jade and Lauryn Hill that would have been the roster of 90's R&B artists that I worshiped (and massively crushed on) when I was growing up.

Great post!

Oh and I totally snickered when I read your comment about Usher falling in his performance. Karma is totally a bitch! That should be someone's avatar! 

7Up's picture

I <3 Alicia Keys sexy voice

I <3 Alicia Keys!

Her voice is sooooooooo sexy! She could talk to me about Qtips and I'd be stary eyed.

We should have a Top 100 Sexiest Women's Voice competion.  With soundbites attached to each name instaed of pix, lol!!!

 

sydneyB's picture

Do it, Do it, Do it!

I totally second that idea! hmmm, i love sexy voices...
sapphistafricana's picture

Toni Braxton

Toni Braxton has the best voice--full stop.
pecola's picture

BET Awards

I think it's unfair to even call this an awards show--the awards are generally outnumbered by the performances. I might try and catch one of the fifty thousand repeats of the show this weekend, as it seemed like no one was acting too crazy (well...I mean, there's Kanye but at this point, I've just come to expect it) and some of the performances were dope. 

Usher's fall was definitely karma at work. Plus, I think last night showed how far he's fallen. As someone said to me earlier today, Ne-Yo and Chris Brown did Usher better than Usher did Usher. He's just not on top anymore...

But yeah...this may have been my favorite moment: 

Who wishes they were Chris Brown right now?

CIARA!

 

 

-----

Geoffrey: You fool! As if it matters how a man falls down.
Richard: When the fall is all that is left, it matters a great deal.

- The Lion in Winter

lilwiss2088's picture

Ha

Toni Braxton just needs some Halls. 
sapphistafricana's picture

Do you smeel that?

 Hateration! :o)
lilwiss2088's picture

Oh theres no hating

Toni Braxton has a great singing voice and has made some great songs but if she was just talking I would politely ask if she would like a cough drop. :-P
G0dot's picture

keri hilson <3

keri hilson is unbelievably gorgeous. her new song energy is fantastic. i love it! i really hope her album does well as well as her singles. she deserves every ounce of success

the best part of the entire show for me was chris brown's perfomance with ciara. when he kicked cici's head back up my jaw literally dropped. AMAZING! both are such great dancers

brownbuttafly's picture

ALICIA KEYS

WELL I LOVE ALICIA KEYS AND HER PERFORMANCE WAS WONDERFUL!! SHE IS VERY BEAUTIFUL AND A HAD THE CHANCE TO MEEET HER ON MAY 30TH 2008. SHE IS A TALKER AND HER VOICE IS AMAZING.
nubianroyalty's picture

Alicia...

so you had the pleasure of meeting her.....is she as beautiful in person as she is in my dreams i think she is??

swoopes84's picture

Ciara

I think that the Ciara/Chris Brown performance was HOT!!!
roc's picture

.....

Holla!
anwei's picture

Thanks

Thanks for that link, I kept hearing about how awesome the awards were this year and now I actually got to see some of the performances. They were great! Even Rhiana sounded good. I love her songs, but I don't usually enjoy hearing her sing live. It is almost as if she is growing before our eyes. I can't wait to hear what that voice develops into.

Alicia is always a thrill to watch(God Bless her for bring back all of the talented women), but I didn't know I was going to get to see the fabulous Jill Scott, Anthony Hamilton, and OH MAH GAH Maxwell. I love that smooth tenor voice. He is one of my favorites.  Chris is so talented, and Ciara I just love to see that body move. 

I have to say Ne-yo was one of my favorite performances because I just think that he is so classy.  And even though Usher is arrogant and ignorant ( Maybe he should just refrain from speaking), he always does a great performance. Who cares if he fell he had an awesome recovery and the rest of the performance was amazing.

The only thing that would have made this show better is if I got to see my baby Beyonce.  She needs to perform on every possible show there is as far as I'm concerned. Lol!

 

pecola's picture

Re: Beyonce

From what I'd heard, she was supposed to be there...she, Lil' Wayne and Usher were originally slated to do the "Love in the Club" remix to open the show. I don't know why that didn't happen. 

-----

Geoffrey: You fool! As if it matters how a man falls down.
Richard: When the fall is all that is left, it matters a great deal.

- The Lion in Winter

silentnomore's picture

Ms. Keys' acceptance speech

she was so poised and gracious in her speech.  i loved when she sincerely dedicated her award to the other nominees and to the end of the word "can't".  She is wise beyond her years.   

and there is no one i would have rather seen singing with my favorite ladies of the 90's.  i lost my mind when SWV took the stage with her.

 

 

 

"what kind of rat bastard psychotic would play that song right now at this minute?"

lvs205's picture

Alicia Keys

There is no good reason she shouldn't be a lesbian...and in my bed.

smithsayswhat.blogspot.com

rupert is my turtles name's picture

Alicia Keys. ick!

 

 not the brightest match in the box. i stick short of a fire. "tupac and biggie were supposed to be the next great black leaders"  uh huh right....

roc's picture

.......

Quote:
not the brightest match in the box.

Hee! Maybe. But how bright does a match have to be :) It's still hot when lit.

nubianroyalty's picture

I know thats right!!!

alicia is simply edible!
saloprix's picture

as a former avid fan

as a former avid tupac fan, i think alicia's comments could have some truth behind them. tupac was very political, and very aware. he just didn't express that all the time in his music. he, like most people, encompassed several contradictions. once he grew beyond the hotheaded fury of his youth, who knows how he would have channeled his political and social ideas?
rupert is my turtles name's picture

i don't think so..

 

 i personally thought the man was a genius at what he did, he was able, through his music, to paint a very vivid picture of the daily hardships of innercity youth and the like. however, i do not think that someone whose mind is so one dimensionally channelled could have risen above that and become a person of positivity. he had all the resources at hand and yet he died in a way that would've been expected had he not achieved anything at all. after seeing both sides he still chose the low road, which in fact is not surprising, seeing that it would've been the most familiar choice to him. i believe he was afraid and being afraid is not the mark of a great leader.

silentnomore's picture

tupac died when he

tupac died when he was 25.  i'm 26 and I feel like I'm finally getting to a place where I can rise above the hardships in my life.  but i definately had to let my anger live before i could conquer it.  tupac honestly expressed what he was experiencing.  I was 8 when "keep your head up" came out and even though that song wasn't about me or my situation, it gave me hope for years.   

and how is alicia keys unintelligent?  she got a scholarship to go to Columbia University and was valedictorian of her high school.  and her music proves she's intelligent in ways of the heart. 

 

"what kind of rat bastard psychotic would play that song right now at this minute?"

rupert is my turtles name's picture

a scholarship! wow!

 

 she must be genius then! sorry but i think not. someone so intelligent would probably not wear an AK47 pendant around their neck. it represents everything that is wrong with the world right now. she's just a poor little person trying to be something her little brain clearly does not have the capacity to be...

 makes me sad really.. 

brownbuttafly's picture

THE AK47

WELL SHE EXPLAINED THE AK47 MEANS ALICA KEYS KILLIN THEM MEANING BY HER MUSIC!! KILLING THEM DEAD AS SHE EXPLAINED IT. I HAD A CHANCE TO TALK TO HER SHE IS VERY INTELLIGENT.   WOW WOULD YOU TELL HER THAT TO HER FACE?
rupert is my turtles name's picture

Yes i would.

 

why would i not tell her? far as i can tell she is still human. talented yes, but still a person just like the rest of us. so telling her how utterly ridiculous she sounded in that interview really wouldn't be a problem. as for "killing em dead" meaning by her music, how about a musical note charm instead of an ak47? how about instead of "killing em dead", we "uplift and enlighten"... hmm... no! the violent slogan sounded much better! 

 how many youths are going to misinterperet ms. keys' words and think "yeah lets kill em dead, literally". bad choice of words sweetheart. as for her being intelligant, ok i don't know her so i'll give that one but not a very socially responsible person.


User login

After Ellen home page on logo online