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Hair's the thing: Paying the price for a great 'do

Let’s get down to business, girls. Are you ready to talk about the most important thing in the world — our hair — and how much money we shell out to keep it looking good?

The Guardian recently published an article about the staggering prices of women’s haircuts. It was as if the writer had been eavesdropping on my friends and me as we gripe every time a salon trip is due.

Why do haircuts cost so much for ladies? It’s especially bad for shorthaired girls like Agyness Deyn and myself. We’ve got to pay for frequent haircuts to stay so gorgeous.

But, here’s the problem: even though our cuts aren’t that different from a men’s cut, we pay more. Most women’s haircuts cost $20, $30, sometimes $40 more than a man’s cut. Of course, in trendy salons in trendy areas, that number goes way up.

With the exception of politicians, most guys I know walk into a salon and walk out with $25 less in their wallets.

I paid $70 here in Washington D.C. for my last haircut. If I had it trimmed every four weeks, like I should, I would be shelling out $140 a month. Who can afford that, especially when some folks are paying twice that a month for gasoline? (Thank god for the metro system.)

Some women pay a lot more than me at the salon. I have friends who use credit cards to keep their hair up. Others stopped going to the salon altogether: They’re either growing their hair out or coloring it at home because they can’t afford salon prices.

Contrast that with every man I know; still pays his $25, gives the whole system nary a thought.

When salons are questioned about the discrepancies in men’s and women’s prices, they’ll likely tell you the general rule has always been that women have longer hair and it’s more difficult to cut, requiring more expertise. Fine, except nowadays lots of women have short hair. We’re not all Rapunzel. Ever since I’ve been alive I’ve known of fashionable women with short hair — look at Katie Holmes, Mariska Hargitay, and Rihanna, for example. How much do you think Rihanna is spending on her hair?

I bet famous ladies who go back and forth from short hair to long — women like Holmes and Natalie Portman — pay the same exorbitant prices at the salon no matter the length of their hair.

Some women have simple close-cropped haircuts that I bet I could trim (and I was in the bottom of my kindergarten class when it came to using scissors with construction paper). Still, they pay more at the salon than my brother.

Why does gender come into play at the salon? Is it because women are fussy? There’s a lot of pressure to give us a good cut. We know when we don’t like our haircuts. (Oh, and everyone else will know, too.) Whereas most men (straight men, at least) wait for their lady friends to tell them it looks good, if they even care.

How much are you paying for your haircuts? Is it more then what the men folk you know are paying? Are you OK with that? And If you’re a stylist, will you explain it to us?

cosmiccowgirl's picture

makes me so mad

The discrepancy between men's and women's haircut prices is such total bullsh**!!

Another problems I have at salons is how, even if I describe the look I want as "boyish," most hair cutters are reluctant to do my hair in a non-femmy.

Model_through_it's picture

My best friend is my hair

My best friend is my hair stylist, so I wasn't hesitant to say "WTF" when she tried doing my hair like I was going to a cocktail party or something. Needless to say after I reminded her I'm a lesbian, and I like my hair to be a little androgynous and not so poofy she hasn't tried it again. And she only works at a Fantastic Sam's so I get a great haircut for like 10 bucks.

"There is homophobia in every corner and pocket of this world, but at the core ... you just love someone and want to make mixedtapes for them" -Sara Quin

brazgirl's picture

I am lucky!

My girlfriend and I have been going to the same stylist for years. He has always charged me "short hair" prices and my girl a bit more for her lovely long locks. This has been since day one. If you are ever in Los Angeles, give him a call- Marty Studio 24 (213) 392-8088 Next time I see him I will ask why some stylists are different.
badpenny's picture

This is but part of an age old question

Everything for women costs more and as far as clothing/shoes go, they're of cheaper quality, too.  I swear my running partner and I (a bloke) wear the same brand (Asics) but his last much longer before disintegrating.

If men had to put up with the inferior quality/higher prices, they'd riot.

I pay my stylist just enough to not make me weep every time I go.  A dime more, and I'm hacking it all off and going to a men's barber where I can get it cut for $10.

Yeah, okay, not really.  But sometimes I want to!

marya's picture

Where a person lives would

Where a person lives would come into the equation too. I live in a moderately sized city, and go to a pretty decent salon and pay only $35 (including a tip!)... but I'm sure if I were in a major city like New York or LA, that the price would easily double or triple.
Tonker's picture

Actually...

...I've never really thought about that...when I was younger my grandmother (who used to be a hairdresser) cut my hair and nowadays I go to a hairdresser called "Unisex".

They've got a lot of salons in Germany and - goes with the name - they charge the same price for men and women.

I pay about 60 Euro (about 70 US dollar) for a hair cut, style and as many colours as I want to have.

Only the hair cut would be 30 dollar.

 

I can ask my grandmother why there are different prices for men and women, but I guess it's really only due to the fact that women haircuts were more challenging and afforded more time, 'cause women simply had the longer hair in the past. And today it's simply a tradition.

And it's changing, I guess, otherwise there wouldn't be hairdresser like mine who charged according to the length - be it a man or a woman.

judithavory's picture

Style and trust

I have very short, "dykey" hair and I pay about $45-$50 including tip for a cut every eight weeks (I should do more but don't have time or money) plus $16 for product about every other appointment.  I do think part of it is what you would call "fussiness," or what I term trust.  That ties in with the other element, which is styling.  Women's short cuts involve razor-style cutting, layering, blow drying, product, and all that stuff.  Sure, I could get a very simple haircut cheaper, but I've had bad haircuts.  Part of what I pay for is trusting that everything will be even, that the texture will be nice, etc.  That said, though I think we should pay a *little* more, I don't think we should pay quite so much more.
Sabriel's picture

Mine are free!

My sister is a hairdresser, I feel so lucky!

IfOnly's picture

Grrr!!!

I hate going to the hairdresser!! It's crazy expensive, period. I think they've changed it now here in Sweden so now they (all hairdressers or just the ones I know about?) charge everyone after the length of their hair. But that didn't mean cheaper cuts for anyone, they just raised the prizes of the men's cuts too. I don't know how much I pay for a haircut but cut+(1)colour, the last time I went, was like 150 friggin' €! And I don't even go to the posh places. Drives me mad. How dare you? How very dare you?!

fallonash's picture

You can save a lot by

You can save a lot by learning to do at least the easy stuff yourself (and I realize that's a terribly stereotypical comment associated with flannel and birkenstocks and whatever, but seriously, it's not that hard, and it doesn't automatically come out looking like a mullet). I've had everything from waist-length to Agyness Deyn, and any number of (supposedly fully acceptable - I know hair stylists, I just don't see them professionally) styles in between and I've done them all in front of my bathroom mirror in 20 minutes or less, ever since I took the scissors away from my mother when I was 12 and started practicing. Never been to a hair-dresser in my life, and from what I hear I'm pretty certain I've saved up a small fortune.
jackedup77's picture

I pay around 50 to 100

I pay around 50 to 100 dollars to get my hair done.  It also takes over 5 hours to get my hair done.  My hair is pretty thick.  BUT, most of that time is sitting and waiting to get in the chair.  She probably only spends 2 hours actually touching my hair.

I've talked to a stylist that charges hundreds of dollars.  I told her she was ludicrous.  She thinks she should get paid well for her work.  Her prices depended on what she had to do and how long it would take her to do it.

There are hundreds of stylists out there.  You can always find a deal.  You get what you pay for.

I think I've heard of women going to the local barber and getting the same prices as men.  Go to salons /barbers that have posted prices.

perfectflaw75's picture

Hair...

I think charging more for a "women's" hair cut than a "men's" is ridiculous. Hair dressers/barbers should charge according to hair length.

That said, my mom cuts my hair. If she's busy I go to an Asian hair salon; they're inexpensive ($25 tops, including washing, styling and tips) and they don't mess up the 'do I want. (I haven't had any good experiences with people who were used to cutting hair of Caucasians.)

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sweatbandrugger15's picture

The Beauty Industry

Haircuts are more expenisve for women because of the beauty expectations for women. So many of women's beauty products are more expensive then men's and we are expected to use more of them. It's all tied in with the history of sexism and gender expectations, but I will not bore you with my Women's Studies teacher babble.

The most frustrating part is that we need to pay more to be women (especially "feminine" women), yet we get paid less for the same jobs. ARG!

Gina Vivinetto's picture

I agree-

what I always wonder is, "How much would tampons cost if men had periods?" I spend a small fortune a year on my menstruation 'supplies'. 
kshadow8's picture

At the risk of sounding like an advert

Menstrual cups are a great alternative to tampons. They're cups that you can re-use and are much better than tampons. I've just ordered my first one (miacup) and am really looking forward to trying this. Though it's a bit pricey for me at first, in the long run it's cheaper since I don't have to spend money on replenishing my supplies each month. And it's green which makes the earth-concious part of me very happy.

There are lots of different ones out there - miacup, diva cup, mooncup (UK), keeper, moon cup (US), lunette ....

There are also really nice cloth pads out there - again, reusable and cheaper in the long run.

Also - what REALLY pisses me off here is that women's tampons are subject to tax but condoms are not. WTF??? Apparentally tampns are not a necessity. You can be sure that if it were men with periods, there would be no tax on menstrual products at all!

imadreamer's picture

Shame !

This should be included in the "equality law" between men and women the government passed few years ago here (france) !

I have shot hair since I'm 6. No color, no "brushing". Basic. The last time I went to a hairdresser "for women" (looong time ago), I was so disgusted that I swore he will never see me again...and that's what happened.

I resolved the problem with finding an "only men" hairdresser who has accepted me in his clients list after I told him that, no, I JUST want you to cut short, nothing else, thanks....So now, I pay the same price as men, which means 10 € ;-) For other women -like my mother- a simple cut+color+brushing is at least 4x more....

But the haircut for men was really cheaper before we had this f... euro.

kristina.michelle's picture

I'll have to see

I just cut off my hair (12 inches to donate and another 3-4 inches to make it really short) so I'll have to see if I can get away with going to the same salon. If not, then I'm on my way to the barber because there's no way I can keep up with it at those prices. Not to mention, my hair grows really fast and is very thick.

kristina.michelle

coffeesky's picture

I've gone to the same hair

I've gone to the same hair dresser since I was 9 years old (I'm 24 now) and for the wash and cut it's only $12, but that's because it's a little mom & pop corner shop.  Both of my sisters always tell me how much they pay for cut & color where they go, and it always shocks me.  I love my stylist though because she always asks me if she should make sure that it will fit in a ponytail, and also always tells me to do her a favor and actually keep it down for the rest of the day since she styled it! LOL!
coffeesky's picture

I've gone to the same hair

*Double Post*

brutal_romance's picture

the prices stagger me as well

i mean, a haircut alone cant be less than $30 from where i come from but honestly right now i wouldnt mind paying anything to have my hair done in a good way. i have curly hair and have been going to the same hair dresser for a few yeras now and my stylist always knew how to deal with it, but since it closed down ive been going through hell looking for someone who actually knows what they are doing with culry hair. i went from posh places that cost over $100 for a haircut to the cheapest, and they all suck!

now the only time my hair looks decent is when its straightened, or hiding under a bandana. ugh!

 

drummergirl83's picture

Curly hair is one of the

Curly hair is one of the hardest hair types to cut!  You have to learn to cut into the curl which is a delicate trick to master.. I naturally have curly hair - unfortunately i can't reach to cut it myself! But it usually takes a while to find someone who gets it right..
geordie's picture

I don't buy the 'long hair'

I don't buy the 'long hair' thing as a good enough excuse. If I went to a female oriented salon and had long straight hair and only wanted a trim - no layers, no fancy stuff, just a straight line chop along the bottom - it would still cost more than it would to give a guy a slightly layered short do. Which is harder?

When I was travelling I needed my hair cut, so I went to a barbers in Sydney and asked for a straight trim along the bottom to get the split ends out, and it cost about £3.75 (which i think is about USD8) because all I wanted was a couple of inches cut off the bottom. And that was right in the centre of Sydney. If I go into a women's hairdressers here, they give me this big speil about how it needs washing and conditioning (even if I've just washed it an hour ago) and it needs blow drying, moussing, shine stuffing etc, so I end up paying about £30.

It is completely sexist. Salons for both sexes should gear their prices based on the style rather than the gender of the customer.

cryspy2's picture

I know I spend too much

I know I spend too much money on my hair but it's so hard to find a good stylist. 

Sometimes I want to just cut it all off... maybe that would be less expensive but I doubt it. Besides, that period of growth when you can't do anything with it is the worst.

jackedup77's picture

something I just thought about

something I just thought about.

Most hairdressers for women are other women.  Most hairdressers for men are other men.  Most unisex salons I've been to are ran by women.

Are we saying that women are being discriminatory towards other women?

My mother had short hair for a while and she went to a barber to get it cut.  She says it was much cheaper.

My Name Is Tara's picture

RE: barber

I recently had the courage to cut my hair very short. I went (and still go) to a barber shop/salon. A barber cuts my hair, I am charged $15. I will go every two weeks so it will be $30 a month. I would say it is cheaper (compared to when I use to go to salons to have my hair relaxed, etc).

Besides that, I do not trust going to a salon and letting them cut my hair. I have had issues with that in the past, they do not listen. An example, in the past I went to have a trim but the woman cut half of my hair length off! I was so upset. (even though the cut looked nice).

Vickitoria's picture

Small places charge less

I've found that if you go to a smaller place that only has a few hairdressers (5 or less) they tend to charge less than the bigger places.  Once I went to a larger salon and just got a basic haircut-no color, no product, etc.-and it was over $50.  My jaw nearly hit the floor!  The place I go to now only has 2 hairdressers and charge much less.  My hair is shoulder length with layers and it costs $20.  I don't know if maybe the bigger places charge more because of all the extra "bells and whistles" like multiple TV sets, drinks, etc. but I completely agree that prices should be based on how difficult a cut is, not simply men/women.
jackedup77's picture

very true I think it also

very true

I think it also has to do with the lease on the property

If someone is paying out the ass on a lease... you're gonna pay out the ass for a cut.

kulhaha's picture

Great Clips

I get my hair cut at Great Clips.  $15 for a shampoo and a cut.  I've only gotten a bad cut once.  If you go to the same place everytime you can try the different people out and find the best one and request him/her everytime you go.  They're always really nice and if you really don't like your haircut they will do what they can to have someone else fix it or give your money back.
ScarletBegonias's picture

This is exactly why I

This is exactly why I decided to trim my own hair. I have my hair cut short and it was growing in faster in the front than everywhere else so I said to myself "I can spend $50 on a haircut or I can try it myself and if I mess up horribly spend $50 on a haircut" I felt that I had nothing to lose (except for some weird, grown-in layers). All in all it went ok, but I'm due for a new haircut now (the back is starting to do a weird mullet thing- not cool at all). My advise is if it looks do-able try it yourself (or get a close friend who knows how to cut a straight line). Worst comes to terrible you just wind up paying for the haircut that you were going to pay for anyway.
191125's picture

I've found that you really

I've found that you really do get what you pay for when it comes to jobs that are trades so I only go to upscale salons now. Mine is a fairly small one (the owner still cuts hair) and I have the same girl for $37 with tip. Color is $60 but I can get a friend to do it for me out of the box.

Coloring your own hair is a great way to save a lot of money. There's no way I could do all the complicated things that my cut requires but I highly suggest finding a friend with some skills to do your color/highlights.

Zen Warrior's picture

Well...

Luckily for me. I just hand my sister the electric shaver, and let her do my hair, for it is free, and I am broke. =3
livlab's picture

oh joy

I really lucked out when I moved to Philly. There is this place on South St called Chop Shop - I don't know how they do it, but seems to be something like an independent cooperative of hairdressers. You come in and they'll assign you to whoever is available next. $10 a cut, no matter if you are a guy or a girl, short or long hair!

Though everyone I had a cut with is very competent, I hit the jackpot one day with someone in particular, so now I make an appointment ahead of time, which means they charge me $5 extra. Seriously, $15 for an awesome do... jackpot.

Faithful Chosen's picture

LOL!

You Americans and your 'staggering' gas prices :D

I think the last time we in Holland paid what you pay for gas was a good twenty years back :P Still, haircuts are insanely expensive, in Holland as well.

I keep my hair long so it's okay for me but my girl's hair is short and needs to be cut at least once a month. Much to her chagrin, I might add. It's ridiculous, really, but here you can at least find those little salons  where you don't max out your bank account...

 

Who you gonna be if you can't be yourself,
you can't get it from t.v., you can't force it on
anybody else.
-- Ani Difranco

femme_girl9's picture

demand & supply

as a student studying economics i'm gonna have to give you the economic answer (at the risk of sounding very very nerdy)..

this is classic demand and supply, which says that if demand goes up, prices go up. like you said, women tend to get their hair cut more frequently because they want to look good, so even if the prices go up, women will still go.

men however, don't like going to the hair salon, they (usually) don't really care about what their hair looks like and so the hair salons have to figure out a different way of attracting them, which is by offering them low prices.

 

if hair salons were to charge as much for men as for women, men would never go because they wouldn't think it was worth it, whereas women care so much that they are willing to pay.

 

 

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vagabondssong's picture

Sad, but spot on.

Sad, but spot on.
drummergirl83's picture

I worked as a hairstyist in

I worked as a hairstyist in a salon for 5 years, and the prices of haircuts in australia are all based on the time it takes to provide a service.  I'm not sure what it's like in salon's in other countries, but here men come in, get a 20-30minute haircut and are done.  Where as women usually come in, get a shampoo, cut, and then dry off/blowdry to finish off.  And for a salon to be viable here, the hairstylist must work to bring in atleast $1 a minute minimum (so atleast $60 an hour).  For example: mens haircuts take 25 minutes =  so $25 is the approx rate.  Women's hair often takes longer (45 minutes or so), and that's why it's more expensive.  Its wrong though, that even if they don't want the shampoo and dry off, it's usually still included in the flat rate price, as when the appointments booked, that amount of time is allocated to that client..

That's also why color is so expensive.. the color itself is fairly cheap, it's just all the time to apply, process, rinse, dry etc..

Did that make any sense?  

I think hairdressers should charge on time spent providing the service.. so shorter hair should cost less to do, whether it be for a man or woman.  Just like quick trims, or basic cuts should be cheaper too, as they are easy and quick.. I know alot of people dont like paying high prices for a haircut, but we were reminded by our teachers/bosses that what we do as stylists, is a creative form of expression, and we shouldn't undervalue it, as it cheapens the work that we do.. 

 

 

geeness's picture

don't get me started!!

i used to have short hair, that my dad cut for me, lol.

but then i decided i wanted to grow my hair long. the last time i had long hair i was about 6 or 7, or so.

not really any need for a hairdresser when you're growing your hair, but when i did go for a trim, it was £13. sorry, but for a trim i could probably do myself, that's too much in my eyes.

at one point, when my hair got too long, i cut it myself, lmao!! did an alright job, too!!

the 2nd last time i went to the hair dressers, i didn't go to my regular one, and was charged £15. which was okay, but she didn't cut it the way i asked. it still looked okay, though, so i wasn't that bothered.

then my hair started to not sit the way it should. every time i washed it, it would stick out, meaning i had to then use a hair dryer, something i never do, and then use straighteners, something i do every now and again.

so it began to piss me off. so i headed back to my original salon, and she cut it, and charged me £24. omfg!! it wasn't that great of a cut and now i'm even more pissed off, cos it's still sticking out after i wash it, and even the hair dryer and straightners are struggling to make it stick back in.

i'm definitely not going back there, even though my mum and sister swear by her.

i want my hair back short, but i dunno what style. some of the styles i like, i'm not sure if i'd suit them, and i'm not sure the hairdresser can pull them off. so i'm kinda in limbo with it, atm.

i'd love to shave my head, but i think my family would disown me, lol!! but it might just come to that, but it would probably still cost me over the odds to get it done.

my dad gets his hair cut and it costs him £5. why the difference?? because it's assumed women care more about their appearance than men, and will pay for it.

hair dye on the shops cost up to £10 a go. the hair dresser charged my sister around £60 last time, and all she got was two colour highlights, not even a full head of hair!!
we recently bought dye ourselves, and she did her hair, and my hair, with highlights, and it cost £5.

i think i'm in the wrong job... and i could so do that job!!!

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badwolf's picture

Hairstylists don't know what

Hairstylists don't know what I want, even when I bring a photo and say "please, make me look androgynous."

And I leave with a 'do that looks suspiciously like Hilary Clinton's...   

I've pretty much given up. I'm cutting my own hair now, which is thankfully not that difficult to cut because it's so straight. 

 

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Ed Would's picture

Oh come on!

Are people really, really, making statements like "men don't like going to the hairdressers/getting their hair styled?" Really?!

Bloody Nora in a hedgerow. This isn't the 1930s, chaps!

Talk about stereotypes! Jeesh!

CottonKandy's picture

Hair

My sister does my hair so I spend no money. She curls and it kind of looks like Rhianna's.

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