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Come With Me If You Want to Live: "South of Nowhere" 3.10This week, Jenn and Dee are celebrating Spencer's 18 birthday. She's finally legal — which leads to a discussion of who is hotter: Spencer or Ashley?
Things get heated, but luckily, they are able to come to an agreement. Come With Me If You Want to Live: South of Nowhere 3.10
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hey girls!
LOVE your vlog guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Peace from Paris
xo
Yes.
Yes.
Second :(
Off to watch.
So excited :D.
Edit:
It's CLR the name of that cleaner. :D The grandma tangent was so true. Completely on point. They old, I don't want to bother them, LOL.
Imagine telling one of your grandparents you gay and next thing you know they drop dead just cuz it was their time to go. LOL. Naw, I'll play it safe.
You ladies are too funny.
The photo you have in your profile
Thanks
Save Spashley!
I Know
My mom did all the talking
My mom did all the talking (after I told her I had a gf) and told the wohle family incl. the grandparents. They talked about it and they were totally fine with it. They havent talked about it with me though, and I didnt talk to them (I don't really like them). Untill now everyone has reacted really cool. :)
girl, 20, charming but insane...
KNOCK ON WOOD
this inspired me to post a forum
Grandma
Having just told my grandma about 3 days ago, I can definitely attest to the awkwardness of the whole situation. She's actually totally fine with it, though.
And...by the way...I would totally pick Spencer.
I Love This Vlog
~~~First off Jenn and Dee yall rock .... I remember back in the first vlogs when Dee said Jenn was a pimp lol ... and to what Dee said about saying your girlfriend is a friend it's so not a lie .. i think that it is important for you girl to be your friend first off as well as your lover .. It seems that a lot of people take a long time to come out to grandparents .. like coming out to your parents is one tough thing but your grandparents is a totally different issue ...Im basically out to the world except my family and i plan on coming out to my parents but have no plans to tell my grandparents lol .. Lastly I so hope someone saves South of Nowhere .. its like every good show ends and the wack ones seem too stay on too long ~~~
~~~Crosby Signing Off~~~
Love this!
Totally laughed at the whole grandparent thing. Mine know, but don't mention it either, but it's not like I set aside some time to tell them, it just kinda got told to them through the family.
Jenn cracks me up "LATE" just mid sentence and story. Love it.
Save Spashley forever!
ps.. ALL about Ashley!
Here's the thing with my grandma....
... she caught me by suprise one day and asked me and I quote "How are the girls treating you in college?" I was caught COMPLETELY off guard when she asked me that. Mind you she is blind and I wasn't even out to my family yet but still she managed to figure out that I was gay. After she said that we talked for about an hour but she told me she hasn't told my grandfather. So I'm out to everyone but my grandfather.
LOV3 LIV3 LIF3
Good Laugh
"I'd rob the hell out of that cradle"
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"you got a little something on your lip baby"
**Jenn slaps her knee with the roll of paper** "MOVE!!!!"
Laughed my ASS off!!!
sup!
just wanted to say i love your vlog and love the fact that Jenn has a STANG! I love stangs there my fav car and my dream car is the "97" Shelby gt 500e. i think that gives Jenn some sexy points for sure.
then again she doesn't need any help to make her sexy!
LOVE
YO!
I have that same hat!
great job!
Hit Up The Forum
don't forget the fan forum...
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girls, great job!
think you two are doing an awesome job recapping south.
my grandma thought my cousin was gay, who is straight. and never thought i was. funny.
save spashley! didja check out my post on the site? tom lynch wrote to say that ratings are up for south 175% from last year.
can't wait til he answers all the questions that fans submitted. lots of good ones in there.
i hate the promos too. but loved the retrospectives.
you should recap the webisodes, too. they always get overlooked. i know that they are mostly crap. but think they play a role in the direction of the show sometimes.
that frickin 'almost hotness' webisode from 3A should have definitely been in the actual episode.
now i'm rambling.
Dee did say that Jenn was
Dee did say that Jenn was like Shane I remember and agreed that Jenn has that type of swag!!!
Jenn you would impregnate someone lmao!!!
Does these people really live with their parents! What my dad would not let me have my chic in my bed bringing her breakfast! this aint not romantic getaway! I guess this is just tv!!!
I agree about that car note JENN!!!
My whole family knows... my grandfather told me that my grandmother had a girlfriend! So I AM EXTREMLY OUT THANKS GRANDMA FOR PAVING THE WAY!!!
Where is troy by the way Jenn while yall using each other as scapegoats!!
WAIT HOLD ONE EVERYONE DEE HAS CURVES OUT OF THIS WORLD THAT I JUST NOTICED... DEE CAN YOU DO A VLOG AND SOME HEELS...SKINNY JEANS AND A BLACK BEATER.....LOL NAW SERIOUS YOU THICKY THICKY THICK LMAO (it is a compliment...im not rude just like to speak my mind)
...damn buffering kicked in... ill catch the rest another day!
~SimplyBeautiful~
WE NEED SPASHLEY
YOU GIRLS ROCK!!!
I PERSONALLY AM A SPENCER FAN IT'S THE QUEIT ONES THAT ARE THE FREAKS IN BED REMEMBER THAT !!!! and I bet Spencer is the biggest freak around between the trench coat and the dirty talk come on.
ANYWAY YOU GUYS ARE TO FUNNY KEEP IT UP!!!!
SAVE SPASHLEY!!!!!!
WHAT ABOUT MADISON!?!
1st- Madison can GET......IT.....ANY....DAY.....ALL...DAY... she's like a young jennifer lopez. and her body.....THE BUSINESS.
2nd- My grandmother's friend recently asked her about having any great grandchildren, and my grandmother was like, "oh i don't think they are in Angelica's future." Now i never told her but I'm assuming my mother may have told her, because I sure haven't. I say the Dee line, "Yeah, I'm going out with my 'friend' "
3rd- yall are so funny, and continue to represent for the children!! Thank yall so much for devoting your time into something that means so much. And not just the vlogging but by being proud of who you are and doing it gracefully, humorously, and effortlessly.
Much love and respect,
Angelica
WHAT ABOUT MADISON!?!
1st- Madison can GET......IT.....ANY....DAY.....ALL...DAY... she's like a young jennifer lopez. and her body.....THE BUSINESS.
2nd- My grandmother's friend recently asked her about having any great grandchildren, and my grandmother was like, "oh i don't think they are in Angelica's future." Now i never told her but I'm assuming my mother may have told her, because I sure haven't. I say the Dee line, "Yeah, I'm going out with my 'friend' "
3rd- yall are so funny, and continue to represent for the children!! Thank yall so much for devoting your time into something that means so much. And not just the vlogging but by being proud of who you are and doing it gracefully, humorously, and effortlessly.
Much love and respect,
Angelica
Late List
I have to put myself on the Late List, because I just recently discovered SoN.
The Ashley Spencer debate:
This is what I would do. I would sleep with Ash, because she is the "bad girl". Bad girls are hot and wild. When I was ready to settle down I would settle down with Spencer, cause she is a "good girl" and like someone else said the quite good girls are usually freaks in the bed.
The grandparents thing:
I am out to my grandmother. I did not tell her, she just knows. She loves my gf.
The friend/ lover thing:
I am guilty of telling family members and others that my gf is my "friend", it's true she is my friend. But lets be honest some people know when that "friend" is more than a friend. No matter how hard we try to pretend it is just friendship. If someone wants to keep their relationship private thats cool I will play along and pretend I don't know.
whenever i have a gf or
whenever i have a gf or something...my grandma calls her my "Lady Friend" which is just too funny.
~birds flyin high~
Another sensational Vlog!
Another sensational Vlog! Summer went by far too quickly, but its great to have you two back again.
Just a thought. Why did Grandma bother to tell them that she didn't love Grandpa? What did that have to do with anything? Unless... Could it be that Grandma falls in the catagory of "Gay, but believes that it is so wrong that she never acts on it, marries a man she doesn't love, believes everyone else should do the same b/c it is the proper thing to do in her mind, and is a cranky, judgemental, controling woman b/c of it. Spencer couldn't be the only gay person in her family tree. The apple could have fallen from Grandma's branch. Her adamant statement of it being a choice might mean that she chose to deny her real self and therefore so should everyone else. It is sad but true that many of that generation and even today live as a self-denying gay martyr.
I am late...
I totally missed ya'll previous CWMIYWTL. Cause I was getting mad. So, I watched this one and Jen is a mess. Then, I watched the last one and Dee was a mess. How did you get bumb-rushed by a DOG?!! So, ya'll is wildin out on these. I keep trippin cuase SON is endin. I was thinking the same thing, that there will be nothing to watch on TV. Someone has to make up a show quick.
I do have to admit that I thought the getto girl, documentary girl's friend, was kind of cute. She was skinny and tryin too hard but I guess they did not want to just have the girls start making out. That is how obvious they were pushing the grandmother to say something. BUT.... I really wanted to see a fight with Kyla and Ashley cause if I would have been made a fool of on national tv it would have been a blow out. They just cut it too nothing. It was highly sweet that Ashley was still caring about Spencer's birthday and wanted to see her. I would have been fumin mad. I would have did a scene with Ashley choking the s--t out of Kyla.
Ya'll do need to do something on Terminator cause it is off the chain this season and Lena Headey is looking so fine!!! Do a short recap so you can just show hot pics cause she is SMOKIN!!!
Paula All Day
Paula would get the business. All that sexual repression unleashed behind closed doors, wooh, Lawd! She seems like my favorite kind of person, freak. They say the freaks come out at night, but the freaks come out on Sunday morning.
Then Ashley, because she's a junior freak. Give her a few more years and she may get on Paula's level.
Jonica reminds me of that guy/girl that gets lots of girls and those that are impervious to their charms are left scratching their heads like "Really?!"
I really enjoy your vlog especially since you guys are science geeks like myself.
Great Energy
I definitely enjoy watching your Vlog
I pickup-ed on SON is not showing the Spashley together much, but they are kissing more for this show. I do not want to say anything negative because I do not want my prediction to be right.
In make believe land, I am feeling Spencer's character more. I like the sweet and innocent, and a woman that kinky behind close doors.
excellent
"I like a fast lady." LOL! You gals just rock my world. Thanks, Jenn and Dee for another fine installment.
Love the fantasies, love your commentary, just LOVE it! You gals need to come to my apartment for drinks immediately.
Keep it up!
lovin' it
i loved, at the end, when Jen got a little serious and unzipped her jacket like she was about to start something...
wicked cute
love the vlog girls
First I would like to say
First I would like to say you guys rock my sox. lol and I missed this soo much, I first watched it over the summer, and when you guys were gone for break, it broke me. lol. but now you're back. YAY!!!!
In regards to this ep., it soo weird cause my friend and I had like the exact same comments to say about that ep of son, especially when it came to Jonica, we called her Roger, the alien form American Dad, Big head, but like rest of the body is like weird shaped, sooo...yeah.. We Def dont like Jonica, we're anti- Jonica. we're gettin t-shirts made and everything. lol. I also agreed with the whole not understanding why they still talk to Aiden, lets be honest, if this was real life, not many of us will talk to Aiden unless he was like family or something. Oh and with the whole Ashley and Spencer thing it varies for me, one season I like Ashley more, and the next I like Spencer more, but right now in 3 I'm def diggin ashley, But Spencer's lips are gorgeous I must say. Ok I'm done now.....
Wait.......someone made a comment about Dee being Thick, I totally concur. Dee you are fly son...lol. Def hit me up when you come to NY. lol.
Can't wait to see the next Ep...
funny as usual
im out to my grandparents.
and who doesn't like a fast woman? lol
"if something's destined, its gon happen. you mind as well give in and stop playing with love."
I finally figured out why i liked you guys so much
I.. know i'm late, but i can be slow sometimes. I like you guys so much because you remind me of my friends from college when I was goin to charlotte. We use to sit around and watch the Justice League, play UNO( because its better then phaze 10), and go to the club in between studying.
I miss those days. Great vlog as usual, you y'all were spot on about the grandparents.
Applause
I have to say thanx for citing the wackness that is Jonika...as I was watching the show I had to wonder what reference did the writers use to formulate her character-could it be the "How to Look Majorly Cheesy while Trying to be Cool" book? Excellent vlog as usual and yep it was great to see the progess of Paula's character in this episode!
~CreativeSoul~
Grandma she's my friend
I will never come out to my grandma. I see it more like respect. If in some weird reason she knows or has an idea I don't want to find out that she has a clue that I'm gay.
I love ya'lls episode keep it cuming < :) LOL!!
Chills Out!
OMG!!!
Ok, first, I just have to say that I loved Jenn getting upset at the end, and threatening to take her jacket off when she saw the ads for the "possible" last episodes of South of Nowhere... Hilarious!
And about the Grandparents thing... Yes, my grandparents know... My paternal grandma said to me, and I quote, "Get outta here............. Well...... You go, GIRL!!!" hahahahahahaha... My maternal grandmother actually CAME TO ME, and told me that she knew I had a girlfriend (that I had CLEARLY, not so cleverly disguised as my roommate)... And you know what she said to me? She told me that when she was my age, she 'tried it out herself' but she had decided that it wasn't for her... OMG!!!!
So, long story short, Yes, my grandparents know and they support me... I'm so lucky... Now... Do we discuss it over the dinner table, NO, but when I was dating men, and even while I transitioned as a bisexual, my love life was never discussed at dinner anyway... lol... So, in the respect, I guess nothing has really changed... *shrug*
Anyway, you guys are BEAUTIFUL and AWESOME as always... Count down til next week...
MUAHZZZZ!!!
DEE & JENN!!!!!!!!!!
I just want to say how cute Jenn is for liking James Taylor--you have his cds in your car?! Very cute!! And one last thing, would Jenn qualify as a stud fish?
thanks for the vlog guys!
You both are awesome.
No, My grandma does not know, but if i ever decided to tell her, I don't think she would mind. My grandma is gay as well. :D lol.
Lol. You guys made my day. "adien needs to go- he just needs to go-" hahaha. Funny.
and, Jonika may be lame. But she is so hot.
- Kelley Jayne
CLR
So random. LOL. I remember those commercials.
I would never tell my grandparents. They are from a different time where I'm sure their beliefs on gender and race are archaic enough. I can't imagine what they'd think of me being gay. They don't need to know, I'm just not close enough with them that'd it be worth the awkwardness for me and the disturbingness for them. We only see each other at family get-togethers.
Watched the whole season
I watched the whole season already because it aired in france before it did here, and from the way they ended it, i don't think there's going to be another season. I hope there'll be one but it doesn't look like there will be. SUCKS
My mother
My mother quite seriously asked me not to tell my grandmother, because she's had five heart attacks and we probably shouldn't risk it.
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let's just pretend i said something constructive and intelligent.